Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, kukho umkhwa okhulayo woyilo lwangaphakathi - ifenitshala eyenziwe ngokwezifiso. Njengoko besanda abantu befuna ukwenza iindawo ezizodwa kunye nezomntu ngamnye, ukwenza ngokwezifiso kuye kwaba yinto ephambili. Phakathi kweenketho ezahlukeneyo zokwenza ngokwezifiso, imilenze yefenitshala yesiko ibe yinto eshushu kwimarike, inikezela ngamathuba angapheliyo kubanini bezindlu kunye nabaqulunqi.